November

Wow. Where did November go?  I cannot believe December is almost over!  We have been super busy as usual. My birthday was on the 18th of November. We went out to dinner. Since I have turned 30, my birthdays just don't seem to be the same.  I don't look forward to the day at all.  Richie was very patient with my pouting.  He took me and the kids to the Timbermine.  We had steak and shrimp and I had a Shirley Temple, just to remind me of when I wasn't so old.  He even helped me put up our new Christmas tree to help brighten my mood.  I felt a little bad that the tree was up before Thanksgiving, but since our neighbor/bishop put his lights up the first of November (since his daughter was leaving on a mission), I thought it would be OK.

Anyway, the next week was Thanksgiving.  It was our year to go with Richie's dad.  We went to Little America and it was yummy.  Lancer chose to stay with my parents.  My Nana, my Aunt, and my Uncle are not in the best of health, and he wanted to stay and spend some time with them.  After dinner, Grandpa Rich took Ryker, so Richie and I could get started on our shopping.  We did quite a bit and I was glad that I had his help and he wasn't even grumpy when we went to the pre-Black Friday sale at Wal-mart! Imagine that!
The end of November brought what I have been dreading....The start of ski season.  I love to ski, but those first days are tough on my legs no matter how fit I am.  Not to mention the hour-plus drive that we make every week to Snowbird. It turned out to be pretty good and I have thankfully been doing a lot of skiing this season. Lancer is enjoying being a part of the Snowbird ski team and so far Ryker loves his all day group lessons. Richie is SO HAPPY to be back on his home mountain, and I know his friends are too.



 



The Return of Cagney and Lacey

Yesterday I had breakfast with a dear friend that I had not seen in a long time.  I will call her "Shmodi".  I am not sure exactly why we lost touch, but I know that in the 8 or so years since I have seen her last, I have missed her and her family SO MUCH.  Sometimes I would think of a funny story, or watch one of the movies or TV shows that we endlessly quoted and want to pick up the phone and call her.  Don't ask me why I did not.

That is the thing about "Shmodi".  We could laugh about the most random, crazy things.  Maybe it was the strange place and really strange people we worked with, but we could take a not so funny situation and make it something to laugh at. Even a lunch run to McDonald's was fun, when we would take her convertible "bug" and we would wrap scarves around our heads and wear sunglasses a la "Thelma and Louise" or "Romy and Michelle".  Boy how those scarves dressed up our drab uniforms.

The 80's TV show "Cagney and Lacey" was really our thing.  Both of us can do some amazing impressions of these women.  Watching the intro makes me laugh so hard because it is so us.  Well except we don't look like these women, we are not cops, we are not from New York, and neither of us is married to a guy named Harve.  But it so us none the less.

So "Shmodi"  this is for you.  You are an amazing friend.

Halloween Hangover

I love Halloween. I think I may even like it more than my kids.  I love to decorate and make lots of spooky treats.  However, this year I am so glad it is over!  It seemed to go on and on!



The festivities started Tuesday night when we made caramel apples for Ryker's school party on Wednesday.  He brought home A LOT of treats from that party and I hid them in the laundry room so he would not eat too many and get sick.  

Fast forward to Friday.  I was busy. Took Lancer to school, came home, cleaned up and then worked on Lancer's costume.  Ryker was having hot cocoa and playing in the playroom.......So I thought.  He was pretty quiet, so I knew something was up.  I went downstairs and he had found his candy.  There he was in the family room, dancing around scattered candy wrappers and a big puddle of spilled cocoa. I had just been up until 2 am the Monday before cleaning that carpet.  So I was not in the best of moods.  I was scared that he was going to get a tummy ache, but I had to hurry and get him ready to go pick up Lancer from a half day of school, and then take Ryker out to Layton for a birthday party. 

Sharks love birthday parties!

 After he went to the party, we were supposed to go to the pumpkin patch.  But when I picked him up he was really whiny and said he had a tummy ache (big surprise), so we ended up just buying some pumpkins at the store and then staying home for the night.

Instead of getting sick from eating too much candy, he ended up getting my cold and having asthma issues.  I am so thankful that our pediatrician set us up with a nebulizer in August.  It makes his asthma so much easier to deal with. Anyway, Saturday he ended up sleeping on the couch most of the day.  By the time it was time to get dressed for trick or treating, he was feeling better and ready to go.  However, he did say he didn't want anymore "junk".  

Showing family all the candy we were
giving out

Lancer went as Eddie Munster this year.  I love that my kid likes to have fun and original costumes.  I spent hours on the costume, and I think he looked pretty good. 

He even had pointy ears



 

He loved making people guess who he was, and it was amazing how many people knew!  As a tradition, we used to go to my Nana's neighborhood to go trick-or-treating, but since she has gotten older and my grandpa is gone, now we have her and my parents over to our house.
This year it rained and Lancer's black hair ran down his face and smeared his make-up. Rain or not, nothing was stopping that kid from getting his candy.  We braved the wet weather and stayed out for a couple of hours.  He got a lot of candy, but since I hid both of their bags, neither one of them has asked for any candy.

Richie got really into handing out treats this year.  He sat on the porch with his mask on, looking pretty scary.  When Lancer saw that, he immediately took over scaring the neighborhood kids.  Even though I thought Richie had totally bought too many bags of candy,  we had more kids than last year and ended up giving it all away.

By Sunday, we were exhausted.  One more Halloween is over and I am glad.  My kids told me they already want me to start on next years costumes.  I think I will wait until after Christmas.

The Duke Boys...

So Lancer had not heard the story about Ryker watching the Dukes of Hazzard.  So the other day we were on our way home from school, Lancer starts this conversation with me.

Lancer "Mom, how hard is it to change my name?"
Me "I don't know, like from Lancer to Lance?"
Lancer "No, I mean change my name to something else."
Me  "Like what?"
Lancer "Bo"
Me "Bo?"
Lancer "Yeah, you know, like Bo Duke"
Me "You are not changing your name to Bo."
Lancer " Yeah it would be awesome. Then we could change Rykers name to Luke."

Seriously?  Come on.  Although if it would mean they would finally get along, I will not let them change their name, but I may consider buying a 68 Dodge Charger.

Note to self......

5 year olds probably should not watch The Dukes of Hazzard.  While canning tomatoes this afternoon, I turned the TV on to keep Ryker busy.  He was watching a old episode of Scooby-Doo.  A while later, while my hands were deep in blanched tomatoes, he came into the kitchen and told me he wanted to ask me a secret question.  I bent over and he whispered "Can I drive your car?"  Whaaaaaatttt?  So I said "Yes Ryker, in 11 years you may drive my car." He thought about that for a second and then said  "Well I'm bored. Can I shoot my brothers BB Gun?" 

I washed my hands and took him out of the kitchen. Then I saw he had switched the channel and was watching The Dukes of Hazzard.  It was paused on a part of the show that looked kind of like this......

I am in so much trouble when these boys are old enough to drive.

YEEEEEEE-HAAAAWWWWW!!!!!

Lancer is 9!

This week we celebrated Lancer's 9th Birthday.  I cannot believe how fast time flies.  It seems like only yesterday he was born.

One day old. He looks thrilled to be wearing that hat.

A few things about Lancer that you may or may not know.
Lancer has three nicknames.  1.Toad, which my grandpa started calling him when he was born.  2. Lance, which he prefers his friends call him., and 3. Eggyball, which is what he used to call Easter eggs when he was little. (Shown in the video below.)

Lancers favorite thing to do is to hang out at the Ranch. He likes to ride horses and help my dad work, or take walks with my mom.

Riding his buddy Moose. Thanksgiving 2007

Like Ryker's birthday, Lancer's big day has lasted longer than 24 hours.

This year, his class held a celebration of life for him and Richie and I got to go.  It was so fun to tell stories of his childhood and to watch each kid to tell him something nice for his birthday.  One little girl told him "I like that you are so good at tether ball." I started laughing. All I could picture was Lancer outside playing tether ball, looking like Napoleon Dynamite.  In the 4th grade, however, I guess that is quite a compliment.

Since Lancer's horse died last month, I decided to make him a horse cake.  It was a surprise and he loved it even though it did not look that great. Horse cakes are REALLY HARD!

It kinda looks like a horse, right?

 For dinner he wanted "Chicken legs, just like they have at the Maverick." I was not sure what he meant, but  finally I figured spicy fried chicken would be close enough. It was for him  We also had corn on the cob, rolls, mashed potatoes and gravy.

Spice Cake+ Lime Ricky Ice Cream=Yummy!



Lancer got some clothes, a new wii game and an i-pod charger/alarm clock. Pretty nice birthday.

Happy Birthday Eggyball!  I am so proud to be your mom. You are a wonderful kid!

  

Boogie Boarding in Hawaii, March 2010



Ryker turns 5!

I cannot believe that my baby is 5!  Having Ryker has been an amazing experience.  When I first got pregnant with him I was so incredibly sick.  I lived on vegetarian pizza and pickles.  Then after 5 months it all the sickness stopped and it turned great.  On more than one occasion I had to go to my docs office because I could not feel him move, he was just so quiet.  He was also so much smaller than Lancer was, but I unfortunately, was still the same size.



The morning I had him.



The quiet stopped the minute he was born.  Since that day he had been on the go non-stop.



The day he came home from the hospital. 

We nicknamed him Goonga. I'm not sure what it means, but it is from the movie Caddy Shack, and it just seems to fit him.

 He reminds me of Fudge in the Judy Blume books. No baby proofing could stop this kid from getting into things that he should not.  You name it and this kid has probably done it.  He keeps us on our toes.  But he is also such a sweet child who fills our days with laughter. When he is at school, or visiting grandparents, our house seems so empty and I miss him instantly

If you are feeling down or sad about anything, he knows just what to do to make you feel better.  On more than one occasion, Ryker has made a grumpy waitress or random stranger smile or laugh with just a look.

 

Ryker did this at the baseball game and even the grumpy guy behind us laughed.

He has been excited for his birthday for a long time.  Like most of our birthdays, it lasted a lot longer than one day.

So right before Ryker's birthday, Lancer came home from school with a nasty tummy bug. Since it was a weekend, he was up at my parents house.  My mom told me not too worry( cuz I do!), he seemed to be OK and she thought it was fine for him to stay.  He seemed better the next day, and so we went on with the birthday plans.
So on the birthday, Ryker told me what he wanted me to make for his dinner. Homemade chicken noodle soup, his favorite rolls, and a SpongeBob birthday cake. Seemed easy enough.  First I made the cake and it was harder than I thought! I think it was too hot in my kitchen because the icing would not set up and my homemade noodles kept sticking together and I had to make a last minute trip to the store to buy frozen ones.  Finally we packed it all up and headed up to my parents.  I had put the cake in a cake box and held it on my lap in the car.  I guess I held it too tight, because by the time we got there, SpongeBob's face was pretty much unrecognizable. Good thing I took a picture of the cake before I ruined it!



SpongeBob before the accident.



Before dinner, Ryker played around and fed the animals.  I made him wait until after dinner to open presents.
While we were eating, my mom commented she did not feel well and thought she was getting Lancer's bug.  I tend to  freak out at the thought of anyone being sick,  and the possibility of anyone else getting sick that I panicked and forgot to take any pictures of my little one opening his presents!



Ryker getting really excited at the thought of cake

 Happy Birthday Goonga!!! I am so blessed to be your Momma!





First day of Preschool this year